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Assalammualaikum,

Random mind. Random question. And random question can be stupid.

Have you ever been in this sort of situation? Where you were doing fine in a conversation with family or friends or strangers. Suddenly, all those talks turned silent for a moment. *cricket sound!*

Random solution :

1. Some people wanted to avoid the silent by pretending someone is texting you on the phone. Post something on the facebook or instagram or myspace or whatever. 
2. Some people just waiting for someone to start the conversation back. So you got something to talk onwards. 
3. Some people just giggle and really don't know why they giggled for. 
4. And last. This one is command, I guess. Stupid question from nowhere pop-out from your mind to your mouth.

Have you been in the situation? I guess plenty of times right. I'm not going to explain the 1st until 3rd random solution. I'm going to explain the last random solution. Where I found it funny and mean for a person who thinks it Bastardy Annoying! *Hehe!*

Basically. This sort of situation happens all the times. Where we are in the good conversation. And decided not to end the conversation SNAP! just like that. You probably wanted to end with something either with laughter or conflicts or just Okay! See you tomorrow then. Bye! Get what I mean?

Some people wouldn't feel like to end the conversation with *cricket sound!*. And then comes the STUPID QUESTION. Am I right? There will be tons of question which categorize as totally stupid pop! on your head and definitely automatic flows in your mouth. Am I right? Things like this happens when you wanted to make you as an interesting person to talk with. It just simply happens. SNAP! *girls' snap! like bitch please*

Whining. Telling or sharing stories. The person who is listening. Definitely is listening, right? Angguk kepala. Like duh! When you started to talk (or mengadu laa!) And asking you a stupid question. 100% saying the listener is annoyed with you and is like *Bitch please!* And drastically react with offensive words. What you (bercakap) feel about it? If you (listener) couldn't give a damn about its feelings. Let switch the situation. Where you (listener) the one who talks like shit and ask stupid question. And the listener (orang yang bercakap kena maki) starts to react the same way. Respond with offensive words. How do you feel?

When you at work. You've made a mistake. And you were called stupid. You may respond "Sorry! boss. I'm stupid." Hell shit. Not going to happen. Deep down you. You swear like a sir! Same respond. But different situation.

What I'm trying to say is. What will happen if we keep on doing this. And turn it into a habit. What will happen to you? To the people who take but not giving it back?

Imagine if you are married with children or single but have a small brother or sister. Come towards your bad day. Suddenly without a warning! They ask you a stupid question. You say "Bodoh la KAU! Tanya soalan bodoh. Takde keje lain ke?" or "Bodoh! Bangang! KAU memang bodoh. A simple task couldn't be fix. WHat is this? KAU memang BODOH!"

Don't want you to be like that. Just want you to imagine. What will they turn into one day? Do you want one day. Your kids is growing and say "ABAH BODOH! SEMAK RUMAH AKU KAU BUAT! AKU BALIK MESTI TANYA SOALAN BODOH! DAH KEJE NAK BAGI ABAH MAKAN. MESTILAH AKU BALIK LAMBAT! ITUPUN NAK TANYA!" or "KENAPA MAK NAK MENYUSAHKAN SAYA? BANGANGLAH. BUSUK MAK BERAK TAHU TAK?" or "KALAU ABAH TANYA SOALAH BODOH NI LAGI. TAHULAH APA SAYA NAK BUAT. FAHAM TAK? DAH. MASUK TIDUR. JANGAN SESEKALI TANYA SOALAN BODOH DENGAN SAYA! FAHAM?" 

Hurm. Masya ALLAH. Astagfirulallah Alazim *sebak bila bayang* What happen? (May Allah protect us and prevent us to become ego and bersifat mazmummah. If this simple task which actually were given by ALLAH SWT. You seems can't handle it. Do you call yourself a good adviser? A good khalifah? A good muslimah?

Think about it!

We all wanted to be a good person. We may be accused of something bad. But if you admit you a good muslim and muslimah and person. Do we have to be that way?Yes it is true. Accept it in a positive way. But how far the positive way is going to be? How far? And yes it is true. The one who ask needs to be more tanya soalan tengok tempat and masa. But how far will we becoming this?

If a married husband and wife. Imagine husband came back tired. Wife is being quiet and grab your bag and salam. And with a second. Serve you dinner and everything. Will you go on with your life without talking to your wife? If your wife accidentally ask stupid question on your bad day which they don't really know what happen. You curse! How they feel about it? And lets switch the husband and wife things to the same situation. Tahu lak kau isteri tak cium syurga! Kau tu cium tak syurga? Mula la. Mula la. Isn't it teaching in a appopriate way leads to jannah for both gender? Leads to happy life? And take this situation and switch the married couple to mom, dad, sister, brother or anyone.I'm not judging. But isn't all of this things were answered by ALLAH SWT in Al-Quran?

Think!

We hope for people to change, drastically. But have we change for becoming a better than good person? Lets do it for the sake of ALLAH. May HE bless our life until the last breath of ours.

Amin...

Ya Allah. Though I'm never be good person in people eyes. But hopefully my afford is trying hard for YOU. Will be better forever. Amin...

Wahai manusia!
Usahlah engkau bangga dengan apa yàng kau terima! Bahkan perendahkan diri engkau pada KU. Ucapkan Alhamdulillah. Agar KU tahu bahawa setiap atas dan bawah. AKU berikan. Engkau terima seadanya.

What has Mufti Ismail Menk said :
The heart & mind are connected in an amazing way. They are a very powerful gift of the Almighty through which He tests us. To lead a happy life & ensure success in the hereafter too, we should never allow either of these to be controlled by others no matter who they are. The only exception is revelation from the Almighty via His Messenger pbuh. Many have regretted allowing others access to their hearts & minds.



Wassalam...

Hurm

Assalammualaikum,

Some people. When you decided to lower down your ego. Throw away the selfishness. Without a second, they decided to take an advantage on you. It is call, BRUTAL REVENGE! They said pay-back-time is needed. Hurm. I guess. When you bend down and knelt. That is the time when they happy with it. Because it shows that you surrender. But it's okay. Like what Imam Al-Ghazali said  

"Keturunan yang baik. Datangnya daripada keturunan yang bukan bangga akan hartanya, ilmunya dan rupa parasnya. Bahkan ia dinilai dari segi aspek agama, ibadah, keperibadian yang mulia. Tidak membandingkan dirinya dengan orang yang bukan setaraf dengannya. Bergaul sesama manusia tanpa mengira darjat. Jangan banggakan keturunan yang ilmunya tinggi. Setinggi-tinggi ilmu, tinggi akan egonya."

And what has Mufti Ismail Menk said

"A sin could be your weakness, but to force your dependants to sin with you is a heinous crime. A sin could be your weakness, but to be upset when your dependants choose not to sin with you is worse. To force others to please you & ignore what pleases the Almighty is lack of spirituality. Let's make mends."

Let it be. I've made mistake. So do the rest of people. If my mistake is to be seen and judge. I say no more. If that satisfy some of people. Hope you are happy. I can only say "ALLAH MAHA ADIL". I'm not praying bad things. I'm a good person. A good muslimah. To represent yourself as a good muslimah. Be tawadhuk. I'm sorry for the things I have done. And some people don't want to say sorry towards the things that they have done to me. Let ALLAH judge them on that. Tears is a companionship. Pray good things while you can. Hurm... Forgive me Ya Allah..

Wassalam..

All Time..

Assalammualaikum,

Live is getting tougher. Seeing my favourite all time boxer, Muhammad Ali, dealing with Parkinson's disease. Kills me. May he bless from God. May he is in a good health. Take care, champ! Knock 'em down!!

Wassalam...

Rest In Peace

Assalammualaikum,

Al-Fatihah to adik AHMAD ADAM SYUKRI. May Allah bless his soul and place him among the greatest. Amin.

As you all know. Adik Adam was diagnosed with a rare disease. Doctor have confirmed that it his brain was damaged due to some malfunction tissues. I forgot about it. But adik Adam has been facing the sickness for quite sometimes.

Doa and doa is all we can do.

So, yesterday. News got spread. MHI, TV3. It has confirmed that adik Adam has passed away. It shocked me. Because what I saw from his mother progressed. He was healing a bit. Before that. He was too skinny. Unable to eat well. He was always in high fever. It has been nearly 2 months. Suddenly when I knew the news. I take a look at his facebook page. He gained weight a bit. Which is Alhamdulillah. A good news. His mom said that his eyes went a bit better than before.

But Allah swt loves him more. Adik Adam passed away on 7/01/2013. Teared me a lot actually. Seeing him bear the pain. That we all know nothing. But only Allah knows better. May his soul rest in peace. Take care, adik Adam. We love you.

To adik Adam's family. Stay strong. No worries. Adik Adam was a good son. No worries. He is in a better place and Allah is there to take a good care of him. No worries. Take care.


Al - Fatihah, AHMAD ADAM SYUKRI

( Original picture taken from Ahmad Adam Syukri's Family facebook )

Wassalam...

Reason/s

Assalammualaikum,

Okay. I'm done watching Setia Hujung Nyawa. Can't wait for tomorrow episode. I'm so excited (style ala2 Mike Meyers style of saying it!) Can't imagine how? No need to pressure to think how.

Later that. I've been seeing this so call Best Video in youtube. Then I saw this so call short film. Produced by Disney.

Wait. What? Disney?

Check this one out..


Moral of the short film?
What I see is.. Have you heard a quote saying "When is the right time. Allah send you the right person. To be the right one. Which are made from heaven. HE will grant it. Matter of time." Everybody believe that. But have you even read or heard. What was written lies between those sentence? A word lies between the line? Have you heard or read a word of an AFFORD? We sure do. We try. We did what is the best. Without an afford. I bet you. Allah won't help us.

As you can see in this short film. The struggle of a man. Met a woman. From his first sight. I know the flying papers were like fake. But hey! Who knows. Like I told you. "When is the right time. Allah send you the right person. To be the right one. Which are made from heaven. HE will grant it. Matter of time." Have faith. Try your best. If your heart says you want a man/woman in the intention of the name of Allah. Insya Allah. HE is listening to you.

Cut the crap. If you give up something easily. I'm sure. It won't work last long until your last breath. If you keep on taking things too easily. If you fight with your partner. And decided to cut the crap. Break up easily. Things easily like that will be a habit to you. FOREVER.

I think. It is okay to try hard. If it meant nothing. Allah really say NO. Lots of sign will be given. Probably. Because ONLY HE KNOWS BETTER than we do.

Back to the short film. See how hard the man trying to get the woman. A stranger. Met accidentally at the train station. Both party. Try their hard to make it work. Lastly, only two. Can change the world.

Haha. Thanks la setia hujung nyawa. Aku jiwang memalam ni.

Okay I think that was it. My opinion. Pretty cool. Though short. But meaningful.


Lovers out there. Lets work it out. Not make-out. Get it!


p/s - I Love You.


Wassalam...

O-B-S-E-S-S

Assalammualaikum,

Abang : Maafkan abang. Harap Sayang masih boleh berikan abang peluang.
Sayang : *Senyum sipu. Tunduk kepala*.
Abang : Ruginya kita sia-siakan masa kita sebelum ni!
Sayang : Kalau tiada derita. Takkan tau nikmat bahagia!

Remember this dialogue? Haha. Come on, guys and gals. It is current famous drama Melayu. 7-8pm. TV3. Ingat tak? Ingat tak? Hehe.

It is SETIA DIHUJUNG NYAWA!!

I admit (malu nak mengaku!) that I'm a bit obsess with this telemovie. Hehe. I miss watching it for 2 episode this week. Apparently this week is going to be the last week. SEDIH WOI! Okay I sound too obsess with this telemovie. Yesterday. And 2 days before. 2 main episodes which really important me to watch it. Haha. I SOUND GILA OBSESS!

I even called a few friends to update with me. Every scenes. Seriously, I did that. Don't I sound obsess? Who don't? This telemovie memang cute. A couples a.k.a husband and wife. Live life with ego, backstab, revenge, puppy love and friendship! So cute.

Since miss the 2 episodes. I sacrifice my eyes to wide awake. Watching it right now. Hehe. I'm serious.

Okay, jangan ganggu! I'm watching it! Bye. Morning!



p/s -Bertungku-lumus watching 2 episodes...And baru sedar. Where my sound card laptop is working after all this years. But speaker is problem. YA ALLAH! Dugaan betul! But Alhamdulillah. Sedih dapat tengok!!





Wassalam..

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