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Assalammualaikum,

Random mind. Random question. And random question can be stupid.

Have you ever been in this sort of situation? Where you were doing fine in a conversation with family or friends or strangers. Suddenly, all those talks turned silent for a moment. *cricket sound!*

Random solution :

1. Some people wanted to avoid the silent by pretending someone is texting you on the phone. Post something on the facebook or instagram or myspace or whatever. 
2. Some people just waiting for someone to start the conversation back. So you got something to talk onwards. 
3. Some people just giggle and really don't know why they giggled for. 
4. And last. This one is command, I guess. Stupid question from nowhere pop-out from your mind to your mouth.

Have you been in the situation? I guess plenty of times right. I'm not going to explain the 1st until 3rd random solution. I'm going to explain the last random solution. Where I found it funny and mean for a person who thinks it Bastardy Annoying! *Hehe!*

Basically. This sort of situation happens all the times. Where we are in the good conversation. And decided not to end the conversation SNAP! just like that. You probably wanted to end with something either with laughter or conflicts or just Okay! See you tomorrow then. Bye! Get what I mean?

Some people wouldn't feel like to end the conversation with *cricket sound!*. And then comes the STUPID QUESTION. Am I right? There will be tons of question which categorize as totally stupid pop! on your head and definitely automatic flows in your mouth. Am I right? Things like this happens when you wanted to make you as an interesting person to talk with. It just simply happens. SNAP! *girls' snap! like bitch please*

Whining. Telling or sharing stories. The person who is listening. Definitely is listening, right? Angguk kepala. Like duh! When you started to talk (or mengadu laa!) And asking you a stupid question. 100% saying the listener is annoyed with you and is like *Bitch please!* And drastically react with offensive words. What you (bercakap) feel about it? If you (listener) couldn't give a damn about its feelings. Let switch the situation. Where you (listener) the one who talks like shit and ask stupid question. And the listener (orang yang bercakap kena maki) starts to react the same way. Respond with offensive words. How do you feel?

When you at work. You've made a mistake. And you were called stupid. You may respond "Sorry! boss. I'm stupid." Hell shit. Not going to happen. Deep down you. You swear like a sir! Same respond. But different situation.

What I'm trying to say is. What will happen if we keep on doing this. And turn it into a habit. What will happen to you? To the people who take but not giving it back?

Imagine if you are married with children or single but have a small brother or sister. Come towards your bad day. Suddenly without a warning! They ask you a stupid question. You say "Bodoh la KAU! Tanya soalan bodoh. Takde keje lain ke?" or "Bodoh! Bangang! KAU memang bodoh. A simple task couldn't be fix. WHat is this? KAU memang BODOH!"

Don't want you to be like that. Just want you to imagine. What will they turn into one day? Do you want one day. Your kids is growing and say "ABAH BODOH! SEMAK RUMAH AKU KAU BUAT! AKU BALIK MESTI TANYA SOALAN BODOH! DAH KEJE NAK BAGI ABAH MAKAN. MESTILAH AKU BALIK LAMBAT! ITUPUN NAK TANYA!" or "KENAPA MAK NAK MENYUSAHKAN SAYA? BANGANGLAH. BUSUK MAK BERAK TAHU TAK?" or "KALAU ABAH TANYA SOALAH BODOH NI LAGI. TAHULAH APA SAYA NAK BUAT. FAHAM TAK? DAH. MASUK TIDUR. JANGAN SESEKALI TANYA SOALAN BODOH DENGAN SAYA! FAHAM?" 

Hurm. Masya ALLAH. Astagfirulallah Alazim *sebak bila bayang* What happen? (May Allah protect us and prevent us to become ego and bersifat mazmummah. If this simple task which actually were given by ALLAH SWT. You seems can't handle it. Do you call yourself a good adviser? A good khalifah? A good muslimah?

Think about it!

We all wanted to be a good person. We may be accused of something bad. But if you admit you a good muslim and muslimah and person. Do we have to be that way?Yes it is true. Accept it in a positive way. But how far the positive way is going to be? How far? And yes it is true. The one who ask needs to be more tanya soalan tengok tempat and masa. But how far will we becoming this?

If a married husband and wife. Imagine husband came back tired. Wife is being quiet and grab your bag and salam. And with a second. Serve you dinner and everything. Will you go on with your life without talking to your wife? If your wife accidentally ask stupid question on your bad day which they don't really know what happen. You curse! How they feel about it? And lets switch the husband and wife things to the same situation. Tahu lak kau isteri tak cium syurga! Kau tu cium tak syurga? Mula la. Mula la. Isn't it teaching in a appopriate way leads to jannah for both gender? Leads to happy life? And take this situation and switch the married couple to mom, dad, sister, brother or anyone.I'm not judging. But isn't all of this things were answered by ALLAH SWT in Al-Quran?

Think!

We hope for people to change, drastically. But have we change for becoming a better than good person? Lets do it for the sake of ALLAH. May HE bless our life until the last breath of ours.

Amin...

Ya Allah. Though I'm never be good person in people eyes. But hopefully my afford is trying hard for YOU. Will be better forever. Amin...

Wahai manusia!
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What has Mufti Ismail Menk said :
The heart & mind are connected in an amazing way. They are a very powerful gift of the Almighty through which He tests us. To lead a happy life & ensure success in the hereafter too, we should never allow either of these to be controlled by others no matter who they are. The only exception is revelation from the Almighty via His Messenger pbuh. Many have regretted allowing others access to their hearts & minds.



Wassalam...