Wow! It has been awhile. Kinda missing blogging. Not for real. For fun. Haha! (Tak gelak pun! Just typed it. Expression je lebih.)
Surprised! I'm still awake. Due to finish editing wedding photos. Phew! Too many stuff to keep up. Especially skill of position. FAILED! But just finish it up.
While editing photos. Currently I'm listening to P!NK's songs. MIND-BLOWING! Always love her. Actually she is kinda my inspiration. Not the way she sings and tattoo. But the way she live her life. How she embrace her fears of losing, sadness and happiness with people that she loves most. Husband, mother and Willow (P!NK's daughter).
Not going to talk about her life. If you want to know. Just google or youtube her. Simple kan?
What I'm going to say is that. How she handle her life as a singer, mother, daughter and definitely a wife to a free-style motocross jumper (Carey Hart). Life as husband and wife. Both used to be apart due to too long distance relationship. Okay! sapa tahan. Lama sangat tak jumpa. They even went for divorce once. But according to Carey. He admit that Pink is an awesome girl. Their relationship have this great chemistry. Which makes both of them decided to give both a chance to live a real husband and wife life. And finally they got it. Work things out. And got themselves a beautiful angel, Willow.
Main point of blogging?
Who doesn't feel jealous see other couples having a great and lovey dovey relationship, am I right? Who doesn't wish to have a good and long relationship? Who doesn't want happiness in relationship? Who doesn't?
The main question is, again, Why complain?
Seeing other couples happily holding hands at the park. Happily kissing each other on the mouth. Laughing like a boss! Dancing in the rain just the both of you. Saying I Love You in the public (ehem! ehem! facebook). Showing off that they should be reward as THE BEST COUPLE ON THE EARTH!
The thing is. Do they always happy? Do they always doesn't fight? Do they always in a good hand and can control each other in being happy?
We may see them good at one time. Like someone said to me "Not all of our story life needs to be express or tell to the world. Let the world know your routine. That's crap!" Agreed! But back to the main blogging. Why complain? If your relationship has up and down. And say to your partner that "Why is it hard for us to be like other couples? Always happy. Why can't you do it for me. So we could be happy. Why can't you understand me that I want like others happiness in relationship?"
When your partner say something like that. You said it hurts you. But when you said to your partner. You hope that they listen and respect your feeling instead of respecting their feelings. That is not fair. I've met a lot of couples who has up and down more worst. I asked. And they willing to share. It sad to hear. But both love each other. Situations :
- Parents' disagreement
- Background (bad education, financial etc.)
- Attitudes
- Appearance
- Oppinions (arguments)
- History (sad like shit!)
- And many more..
Why it is so easy for some couple just break-up or divorce without work things out? Why is that so hard until started to comparing, yelling, screaming and complaining? People taught you to be tolerate. But you didn't show it. You wanted to take things easy like a slice piece of cake (yummy!) Everything must end-up by saying Goodbye! This relationship sucks! Better find the best. Life is too short to spend with someone who makes your life difficult. Why it has to be so easy? Did Allah teach us to give up in everything? You even teach yourself not to give up in something that you really want. But why for this bloody simple thing must end-up with Goodbye? Why is that so easy? If you love someone. You took her/him at the first sight and brave yourself telling that she/he is your lover. And simply saying goodbye without work things out. Why so easy?
Not all couples we see have the great life time in their relationship. Why complain if you can work things out. If both say No! Then that would different. We took each other hands. Face hardship together. Stay loyal in everything. Always come with THE TALKING. Not the talking by "I'm a man. You should listen to me. Respect my shit!" What-the-fuck! The talking means discuss each other. Handle and settle problmes just the two of you. If she/he is uncomfortable in what their partner is doing. Talk to each other. Or whatever that can lead both have a good relationship like others.
Why we need to complain that our partner sucks! Their attitude like shit! While you can sit and discuss about it. Simple as that. If you having an egoistic partner. BE PATIENT LA! DO THE TALKING. No need to say "You know what. You are worst than anybody that I know. I'm leaving you." Come one. That is not nice. Treating people in bad ways doesn't make you a good role-model. It makes you a COWARD! Being coward on something means give up.
Fights. Argument. Ego. Are normal in life. Who doesn't have that. If you think you don't have it or don't want it. It means that you don't mind to love and to dump your partner in the trash can, simple as that. That makes you a douche-bag. If you call yourself a loyal, there comes a sit and talk. Am I right? Tak baik lepas tangan!
If orang barat. Whenever there is a fight. SEX is the answer. Jangan malu nak mengaku that is true! Haha. Whether you are bf and gf. Sex is the answer. As a muslim, kalau belum kahwin. Don't agree that sex is the answer lak kan? Nak kena penampar? Haha. Then what is the best solution? SIT AND TALK! But if you married. Sex hari-hari when you have conflict with your husband/wife. Shouldn't be a problem. Kiri? Kanan? Your way! Hehe. (Warning! 18SG)
I'm still listening to Pink's songs. And my favourite are Just Give Me A Reason and True Love.
I've been listening to it for quite a time. I take the lyrics and applied it to me. And guess what. The lyrics showed that how struggle Pink is handling her life to work things out between she and her husband. Life always in up and down situation. Again, why complain?
If you think you a person which is stated as A PERSON WHO CAN'T MAKE YOUR PARTNER HAPPY. Partner, take note! But at least look at their afford in the other thing. There must be something. Where they are trying their best to work things out in any way. Whoever that always being compared and complained at. While others is now lovey dovey. I understood that your partner is hoping for a good relationship. So, BE STRONG! STAND STILL! BE ON YOUR OWN WAY! BE HUMBLE. CHILLAX! No need to complain. Lets just sit and talk. Don't you have some mercy or feel pity to your partner who always by your side in your up and down. Please la rasa appreciate! If we want somebody to respect us. We need to respect them too. Right? *Jangan cakap je tya, buat! Hehe*
Everybody have their own specialty. If we see them special in some ways. Don't bring them down. Sit and talk (besides sex!). STOP COMPLAIN! Be supportive la! Feel the appreciation. Gerenti Happy!
That's all.
I'm serious. Stop complain. Kesian la.
Wassalam..
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